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I used to believe that love meant putting everyone else and their needs first, before my own. While I do think there is some truth to that, in the sense that being a giving person is one of the ultimate acts of being a loving person, I came to realize that I must give to and love myself first and foremost.
以前,我相信爱就意味着要把他人和他人的需求放在自己的需求之前。现在我仍然认为这种观点有一定的道理,因为作一个“施爱者”的最高境界之一就是作一个“给予者”。但是,我渐渐意识到,给予自己、爱自己才是最重要的。
Here's why:
原因如下:
When you put everyone and everything else above you, you are no longer valuing yourself and your needs. And when you are not meeting your needs, and you don't take care of yourself (emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually), you can't be the best version of yourself to the special people in your life. So in essence, you don't love them at your full potential!
当你把一切其他人、其他事都置于自己之上时,你就不能再看到自己的价值、考虑自己的需求了。而当你无法满足自己的需求时,你就不能(从心理上、生理上、思想上、精神上)好好照顾自己了。这样,对你生命中那些特别的人来说,你便无法成为那个最好的自己。所以,从本质上说,你没有尽自己一切潜能来爱他们!
Here are some things to consider —
你需要思考一下:
1. Are you physically taking care of yourself? Do you nourishyourself with the right foods, get enough sleep, exercise, are at a healthy weight, and on top of your check-ups? If not, I betyour energy is low, you're tired and stressed, and your confidence isn't the highest (because you probably don't feel your best). Now think about how much more you could give to ...